Deaf or Hearing

I'm trying to decide to wear hearing aid or be deaf. I don't want to choose a path that my husband and I will regret. I don't want to hurt him or make him feel like his input isn't important. But at the same time I can tell that people do not believe that I am deaf. Which makes it hard on me. I'm so used to using my voice that going to just sign is going to be a challenge for even myself. With my hearing aid I can function most of the time without being sleepy, but since I am no longer used to being without a hearing aid except at bed time I get really tired very quickly, but if I stay active I'm fine. I would like to know your opinions. My new family (my husband's family) are more than willing to learn sign to communicate with me, however I don't know about my own family. I also don't want to hurt my husband and I don't know how to bring it up in conversation. I've asked him through texting and he hasn't responded, but I also know that I need to be direct and talk to him I just don't want him to tell me it's okay when it's not. I love him and would move Heaven and Earth for him if I could.